No. It's not that at all. My whole family has mental illnesses (various ones). I have compassion all day every day for people struggling with it.. What I see is a girl who is not in her right mind and I can't just automatically jump on the "blame the boyfriend" bandwagon, given the circumstances. She seems completely hysterical, but at the same time, bizarrely in control of her crying fits. I sense manipulation and insincerity from her. I hope she is found and gets the help she needs, but villifying this guy with NO information isn't right either.My God, some of you are so harsh. You are talking about a young woman who is missing and probably dead. Because she had a mental illness, she is not worthy of your compassion?